Cons used to be my lifeblood but unfortunately going to one unmasked and getting covid for the first time really scared me and put me off for a long time. I let my guard down because this convention in question was still requiring all attendees to show vaccination cards in 2023 to show entry.
For the past half year I've been in and out of doctors and hospitals more times than I can count between my own health issues and helping out family members' with theirs. I always wear a fitted N95 whenever I leave the house and recently I upgraded my masks by wearing double-sided medical tape for a perfect seal. I never have to adjust the mask itself, even if I sneeze or cough or yawn.
So I've been in and out of doctors constantly and covid levels have been at really low levels this spring, and I've had some nice discussions with people on this sub about zero covid con attending strategies, so I figured "ok, well maybe I can start going out and having some fun while being safe"
My first con of the year is Philly Fan Expo 2026. I prepared a bunch of masks with double-sided tape already applied and threw them in my bag and made more each weekend. Put it on, get on the train, get down to Philadelphia. Any time I eat or drink I do so walking between the train station and the convention center or dip out and find a secluded spot outside to refuel (which is kinda funny because Star Wars now depicts this is how some hardcore Mandalorians eat their meals).
The mask itself is very comfortable all day even with the medical tape applied, and actually more comfortable on account of not having to constantly readjust it.
I had an absolutely amazing weekend. I went alone besides meeting up briefly with an old friend and their family member. I bought tons of cool art, 3d printables, and knick knacks. I panel hopped a lot and hung out with Dean Norris (Hank from Breaking Bad), Ed Edd and Eddy, and Gary Anthony Williams (Uncle Ruckus from the Boondocks). I saw so much cool art and had an absolute blast. I even made Hank bust a gut laughing along with the whole room during his Q+A (for clarity, I told a joke; they weren't laughing at me being masked).
On my last day I found a secluded spot outside while I got food from Redding Terminal Market. It was a BLT Hot Dog, french fries, and a small bowl of chocolate ice cream. The food was so heavenly delicious and I had such a good time after spending so many years in isolation while struggling with caregiver burnout I just broke down sobbing alone while having dinner because I was so happy and had so much fun.
No one criticized me for masking, no one othered me for masking, no one passive aggressively coughed at me or anything like that. In fact I saw a decent number of people also masking in N95s.
I wish MORE people would do that, but I got a much needed dose of humanity and a humble reminder that people can still be kind and compassionate, between the people who helped me at the con, how I was treated, and the people here who gave me tips and encouragement for doing this safely.
Why am I writing this? As warning? As a success story? As a guide? I honestly don't know. But I really needed to get all this off my chest and take the opportunity to thank this sub for giving me tips on safe congoing. I feel really great and don't feel sick at all so far.
Thank you for reading if you took the time to do so and God Bless