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Problem description

@tacaswell reported that python/cpython#23205 from Python 3.12 breaks pybind11, which in turn breaks matplotlib. We should probably both fix this and see if we can reenable the dev tag for 3.12 testing (Might also be good to start playing with using PyType_FromMetaclass too).

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