Series / Half Man (2026)

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In 2018, Niall (Jamie Bell) is a Scottish man getting married in middle age. His wedding is gatecrashed by his "brother", Ruben (Richard Gadd), restarting their intense and volatile relationship that began all the way back as teenagers.

Half Man is a Mini Series and an International Coproduction between HBO Max and BBC One. It aired between April and June 2026. It was written by and produced by Gadd as the followup to his first series, Baby Reindeer.

Tropes:

• Abusive Offspring: Niall says that Ruben hit Maura, his mother, growing up. Despite that, he is still an ardent example that Even Bad Men Love Their Mamas and takes it very badly when Niall criticizes Maura.
• Abusive Parents:
  • Lori is extremely emotionally abusive towards Niall to the point of being an Evil Matriarch. She makes a point of embarrassing him in front of Joanna by pretending to mistake theirs for a romantic connection, even though Niall had just told her that not only was he not romantically interested in her, he didn't even like her. She is also hands-off and smothering when it suits her, both ordering Niall to go to see Ruben but refusing to get involved in why he actually wants to see Niall: to lie about why he attacked Alby, and to put Niall up to do the same in his witness statement in court. During Niall's "The Reason You Suck" Speech to Ruben in the hospital he specifically calls out their favoritism towards him, Maura getting on at him for any little thing while looking the other way whenever Ruben loses his temper and beats someone black and blue and Lori acting like it was unreasonable for Niall to be uncomfortable lying on the stand for Ruben's benefit to get him off the hook (not to mention acting wilfully blind that Niall is terrified Ruben will get revenge on him when they next see each other, which drove him to a nervous breakdown - something Lori judges instead of having any empathy for despite putting him in that situation in the first place).
  • Episode 3 confirms that Ruben was sexually abused by his father. His mother Maura isn't much better - she practically enables his violent behavior, getting angry with Joanna when she expresses awkward confusion over how someone as violent as Ruben could have a seemingly normal mother, and Niall hates how she comes down twice as hard on him to overcompensate for not parenting Ruben properly.
• Actor Allusion: In episode 5, Niall claims to be a terrible dancer, and Mona agrees. In real life, Jamie Bell is a trained dancer who danced even before he took up acting, and he is still best known for Billy Elliot.
• All Art Is Autobiographical:
  • In episode 4, Niall's editor advises him to Write What You Know. This hits a nerve for Niall, whose first book is clearly inspired by his complicated feelings about his father who died when he was six. Niall's editor is fairly dismissive of the link, suggesting that Niall should write something more explicitly autobiographical.
  • Come episode 5, Niall is writing a book that is a Coming of Age Story that features expies of himself, Ruben, and Mona. Mona recognizes herself in the description of Clara-Louise.
• Ambiguously Bi: Ruben. He gropes Niall twice, once in the present day timeline when he's teasing him about wearing a kilt and once out of jealousy that Niall managed to impregnate his girlfriend when he himself is infertile. He also tends to hit on girls in a way that comes across - in his teens at least - as Have I Mentioned I Am Heterosexual Today?, however he spends most of his time either looking out for or competing with Niall, even going into debt to provide for him the same as he does for his girlfriend Mona. He's also sexually violent towards Niall on multiple occasions - the above mentioned groping, but also sexually assaulting him using the hood ornament Niall tried to steal off his car while implying he knows full well Niall had a crush on him. Given the implication he was abused by his father, it's ambiguous if his conflation of sex and violence is him repeating that pattern or not. In episode 6 when Niall comes out to him he remarks 'they can call us gay and proud' - which could either mean he himself isn't straight, or is an expression of solidarity with Niall that he'd stand up to anyone who tried to hurt him.
• Arc Words:

  Niall: You don't have to apologize.

  Ruben: I didn't.

  • The phrase "brother from another lover" also comes up repeatedly.
• Aw, Look! They Really Do Love Each Other: Much of episode 5 highlights Mona and Ruben's troubled relationship, with Ruben being controlling and temperamental towards Mona and Mona sleeping with other men behind his back. However they both show they do love each other despite everything - Mona tells Niall she knows she should leave but can't since she loves Ruben too much, and Niall discovers Ruben has been lying about being let go from his job on the rigs and going into debt because he couldn't give her children. He also felt she'd leave if he couldn't pay the mortgage and provide for her.
• Boomerang Bigot:
  • The opening scene of the first episode is Niall, in high school, being bullied for being gay/having "gay" interests. In episode 4, an adult Niall runs into his main bully, Gus, at a Gay Cruising site. Gus apologizes for his past behavior and tells Niall that he understands the irony.
  • Lori is also a curious example - despite being a lesbian in a relationship with Ruben's mother, she's fine with Ruben pressuring Niall to lie that Alby was trying to molest him in order to get Ruben off the hook for beating him and doesn't even look uncomfortable as Niall does when the judge uses homophobic canards in the courtroom and even when knowing Niall is gay later on she still refers to it as Niall 'screwing [Ruben] over.'
• The Chain of Harm: Ruben was sexually abused by his father growing up. He is belligerent and violent to those around him, particularly Niall, even going so far as to sexually assault him on more than one occasion, and is extremely financially controlling to Mona.
• Chekhov's Gun: In the second episode, Lori presents Niall with the sgian-dubh (that's a small knife worn as part of traditional Scottish Highland dress along with the kilt and all the rest of it if you're not Scottish or familiar with the Gaelic language) which was his father's before him. He goes on to use it to stab Ruben in self-defence in the sixth episode, who eventually dies from the wound.
• Crazy Jealous Guy: Ruben is possessive of both Mona and Niall. In the university timeline it's ambiguous if Ruben zeroes in on Alby because he senses he's gay or if it's also because he can tell Niall is interested in him, a beat that repeats when Ruben crashes Niall's wedding and talks about his marriage as him 'losing [Niall] forever'. Then later Ruben becomes abusive to Mona, expecting her not to get a job even though he's hiding what dire straits they're in financially solely because he doesn't want her talking to other men, even going as far as dominating Niall into spying on her for him. It turns out he's right that Mona is cheating, but she's clearly doing it more as a response to his controlling behavior than because Ruben can't get her pregnant as he seems to think.
• Cure Your Gays: Episode 5 reveals that in the interim between episodes 4 and 5, Niall did aversion therapy to force himself to try and stop feeling attracted to men. Its failure is a Foregone Conclusion.
• Double Standard: Rape, Female on Male: Niall loses his virginity (at least, in the heterosexual sense) after Ruben brings Mona back to their room and they bully and coerce Niall into having sex with her. It's revealed that since Ruben set it up, he very possibly told Mona that Niall knew about them planning it. Niall is proud of it and apparently genuinely grateful to Ruben, but there's no doubting the extreme coercive overtones.
• Double Standard: Rape, Male on Male:
  • Ava catches Ruben in the act of tackling Niall to the pavement and stripping off his trousers. For some reason she doesn't press Niall or Ruben much about Ruben's transparently flimsy excuse that they were just mucking around.
  • Played with between Niall and Ruben. Niall fears Ruben on a primal level after Ruben brutally rapes him with a foreign object in episode 4. However, neither of them ever mentions it after the event, including when Ruben tells Niall that he was molested by his father.
• Dramatic Irony: Niall complains about Joanna in episodes 2 and 3 and doesn't seem to like her much at first. The audience already knows that, come 2018, she'll be a guest at his wedding.
• The Epic: Set over a 40-year relationship between Ruben and Niall, from their first meeting in the late 1980s to the early 1990s, and then in the mid-2000s and 2018. All four periods culminate in an act of violence: the 1980s section ends with Ruben beating and permanently disfiguring Alby; the 1990s end with Niall choosing not to lie for Ruben; in 2010, Ruben savagely beats Benji, and in 2018, Ruben and Niall dies.
• Fetishized Abuser: Niall struggles throughout with being attracted to Ruben, including when Ruben is most cruel and violent to him (including at times sexually violent). As such, his feelings towards Ruben alternate between being affectionate, loving, vengeful and disgusted. The audience are thus at times asked to acknowledge Ruben's attractive side while recognizing his insidious effect on Niall's life.
• Foreshadowing: When he undresses in the barn in the first episode, Ruben's tattoo says "Baird." Come episode six, this is revealed to be the name of his and Mona's son.
• Finger Gun: Ruben mimes shooting Niall with a finger gun while being arrested after beating Alby. When they see each other again on Niall's wedding day to Alby, he does the same thing.
• First Girl Wins:
  • Played with Ruben and Mona. Throughout the teen timeline, Niall observes that Ruben is a Chick Magnet with many female admirers. However, the first girl that the audience sees with him is Mona, though it's Niall who loses his virginity to her in a dubiously consensual threesome. Ruben and Mona get married after his first stint in prison, making her both Ruben's first onscreen "girl" and also Niall's first girl, period.
  • As part of How We Got Here, this is revealed to be a gender-flipped variation with Niall and Alby. In episode 2, Alby is the first person Niall comes out to and the two develop an intense friendship that's on the verge of becoming more - when Ruben beats Alby so badly that he's in a coma and nearly dies. The audience also discover that, come 2018, Niall and Alby are getting married.
• Gender Nonconforming Equals Gay: In the first scene of young Niall, he's being bullied for his Indiana Jones stickers which are apparently "gay." It becomes clear later that Niall is gay.
• Gilligan Cut: In episode 2, Niall's mother, Lori, tells Niall not to invite Ruben to university. Niall replies that he'll be fine and will make lots of friends. Cut to him sitting in a dorm by himself in the dark.
• Got Over Rape Instantly: In episode 4, after Ruben violently rapes Niall with a car ornament, they are still able to make up and even hug at the end of their fight. Given that Ruben is physically violent and otherwise aggressive to either Niall or the people around him in every single episode, it's implied Niall has become used to how Ruben behaves.
• Hereditary Homosexuality: Ruben and Niall's mothers are in a romantic relationship which causes them to move in together. Ruben and Niall develop a relationship with a lot of Homoerotic Subtext. In the present day, Niall marries Alby, a man. Ruben, too, stays firmly in the realm of Ambiguously Bi, as described under that entry.
• Hidden Depths: In the teen timeline Niall sees Ruben dancing to the radio. Ruben of course makes him swear never to tell anyone about it.
• Hollywood Old:
  • Neve McIntosh plays Niall's mother Lori and was 52 at the time of filming. While this puts her in the right age bracket to have a son of between 15 and 22 between 1987 and 1994, she is not replaced by a Time-Shifted Actor throughout the 2000s or the 2010s. As such, she continues to play Lori (though under makeup and with a wig) when he's in his late 40s, and Lori's presumably meant to be in her 70s.
  • Richard Gadd and Jamie Bell play Ruben and Niall respectively after the Time Skip to 2008, when their characters are 36 (Niall) and 38 (Ruben). They continue playing them until 2018, when the characters are 46 and 44.
• Hope Spot: Niall and Ruben open up to each other in prison after Niall finally confesses he's gay. When Ruben is unexpectedly fine with it, they both begin sharing things from over the years and laughing... right up until a dangerously casual Niall confesses he slept with Mona and Ruben's son Baird is very likely his.
• Inevitably Broken Rule: Ruben is a firm believer that Men Don't Cry, to the point where he says with pride that he only cried once: when he was seven years old and his father survived a heart attack. This rule gets broken multiple times throughout the last episode, when he cries at his mother Maura's funeral, when he tells Niall about being sexually abused.
• Jerkass Has a Point:
  • While clearly treating Niall like The Un-Favorite compared to Ruben, Lori isn't wrong to point out Niall's inability to accept his sexuality is destroying him and ruining his life (though she isn't right that he has no future as a writer, as once he gets his life together he finds more success).
  • While minimizing the effect his own verbal and physical abuse had on Niall, Ruben is correct that Niall cares too much what other people think in his refusal to come out.
• Karmic Rape: Invoked in-universe. After the car accident and while Niall is in hospital, Ruben rapes Niall with the hood ornament from his car to punish him for refusing to lie for him and sending him to prison for over a decade.
• Law of Inverse Fertility: In episode 5, set in 2010, Mona and Ruben have been unable to conceive for years. Niall impregnates Ava despite them only having been together for a year and having sex much less frequently. Exaggerated with the revelation in episode 6 that Niall also managed to impregnate Mona after an one-night stand.
• Men Are Tough: A huge theme of the series. Niall's jealousy of Ruben and struggles with his sexuality come predominantly from his envy that Ruben is more of the stereotypical 'real man' than he is, as well as having complex feelings over Ruben's propensity to solve all his problems with violence. Much of the series revolves around the two of them competing with each other even while being on friendly terms - at university Ruben lies that he finds the roommate Niall expressed interest in ugly only to specifically hook up with her later seemingly to emasculate Niall, and some of Ruben's violent outburst towards Alby that landed him in prison seems to stem from a reflexive aversion to Niall being gay. As adults, Niall is furious Ruben has been helping pay for things he needed in secret because he finds it emasculating, and during his breakdown in the hospital admits despite his anger at Ruben for messing up his life he'd still love to know what it feels like to be him. Even when Niall is ostensibly doing better for himself (better house, career, somewhat stable relationship) he can't help but compete with Ruben - he finds out that Ruben is infertile and only then rubs his girlfriend's accidental pregnancy in his face, causing Ruben to become jealous of him, sleeps with Ruben's girlfriend Mona and only decides to tell Ruben about it when she admits she's cheated on Ruben before, causing Niall to feel like their fling was nothing special. On Ruben's side he loves to use the nickname 'Bambi' for Niall just to put him down, is a classic abusive controlling partner to Mona, keeps torpedoing his own life by responding to everything that hurts him with violence and tries to humiliate Niall by getting him to mow his lawn and clean to pay back a debt.
• Men Don't Cry: Ruben is a firm believer in this, to the point where he tells Niall that he only cried once in his life - when his father survived a heart attack. Subverted in the final episode, where Ruben cries multiple times - at his mother's funeral, a Single Tear when he almost finds out Niall and Mona cheated together, then again when confessing his father's abuse to Niall.
• Most Writers Are Writers: Niall is a writer, though he remains in the "struggling" category until episode 5, despite having published a book.
• Never My Fault: Zigzagged with Ruben. Throughout the show he acts as though it was other people's fault when he violently assaults people, but by episode 6 he admits he failed to take responsibility for how badly he let Maura down. But then when Niall comes out to him he refuses to own more than '10 to 15%' of how afraid Niall was to come out, despite repeatedly using homophobic slurs around him and dominating and degrading him. While he's right that Niall clearly has a lot of self hatred he ignores as usual how much Niall's fear and respect for him played into why he is the way he is - on top of all the homophobic culture of 80s Britain that he handwaves as something Niall just took too seriously.
• Nice Girl: Joanna. In a show where the two leads come from incredibly dysfunctional families and spend a lot of time screwing each other over, she stands out as straightforwardly kind, even accepting and empathising with Niall's struggles with his sexuality right away - and simultaneously being the one person to remind him it's still wrong to lie in court about what happened with Alby and Ruben.
• "Not Gay" Rationale: In episode 4, Gus calls Niall out for this kind of thinking:
  Gus: So, are you... out?
  Niall: No way. I'm not even gay.
  Gus: You sleep with men all the time, don't you? I mean, you must do, going to a place like that?
  Niall: Doesn't mean I'm gay. Would be gay if I fell in love with them.
  Gus: Oh, you're one of those, are you? A man so straight he fucks men. Are you so vegetarian you eat meat?
• One-Liner Echo: "My brother from another lover/brothers from another lover" becomes this for Ruben and Niall's relationship.
• One-Night-Stand Pregnancy: Episode 6 reveals that Mona got pregnant from her one-night stand with Niall.
• Rape and Switch:
  • This is heavily implied to be at least one reason why Ruben brings his girlfriend Mona back to his and Niall's shared bedroom and bullies and coerces him into having sex with her: because of his fear that Niall is gay (which he is).
  • It's further implied that Ruben's motivation for this is his own fear that his father's molestation "turned" him gay, which has turned him into the brutal and troubled bully he is by 1989.
• Rape by Proxy: Of a sort. Ruben brings Mona back to his and Niall's shared bedroom and pretends that they coincidentally "happened" to find him awake, then bullied and manipulated him into having sex with her. It's pretty clear Niall thinks he consented, but he's visibly uncomfortable when Ruben reveals he planned it.
• Ring on a Necklace: Throughout the decades, Ruben wears a gold wedding ring around his neck.
• Saying Too Much: When sharing in prison, they both start with funny and honest anecdotes up until Niall lets slip he slept with Mona and Baird is not Ruben's child.
• Seduction as One-Upmanship:
  • In the university timeline Ruben does this to Niall. Niall, who is still in the closet at this point, fakes an interest in his French roommate Celeste. Ruben at first calls her ugly and leads Joanna on instead, but then kisses Celeste for an extended period during spin the bottle and seduces her seemingly to get one over on Niall. Joanna is left as collateral damage for Ruben's behavior, sobbing during class the next day.
  • Ruben is in a very controlling marriage to Mona. She reveals to Niall in episode 5 that she cheated on him with Benji in a way to regain power.
  • Exaggerated with Niall and Mona. She clearly hits on Niall as an extension of her revenge against Ruben, but when Niall has sex with her, it's heavily implied that it's in order to get revenge on Ruben too. He takes it very poorly when Mona points this out.
• Sex in a Shared Room: After passing his exam, Ruben brings a girl Mona home to his and Niall's shared room and has sex with her with Niall next to him. They think Niall is sleeping, though when they realize he's not, they both encourage him to get involved. Then it's revealed that this was all planned by Ruben, as a way to thank Niall for helping him with the exam.
• Swiss-Cheese Security: Ruben visits Niall in hospital after he gets in a car accident in episode 4. Ruben brutally rapes him and beats him in a hospital bed while Niall screams for help. Nobody is seen, or comes to check on him, for even a moment.
• Title Drop: When telling Niall about how his father molested him, Ruben refers to himself as a half man because of it.
• Transparent Closet: In 2010, Niall gains a girlfriend, Ava, who knows about his past but believes he's bisexual. However, Niall has done aversion therapy to suppress his attraction to men and when Niall tells Alby that he's bisexual, Alby asks if he's told himself he's bisexual.
• Unconfessed Unemployment: In episode 5, Niall learns that Ruben lost his job a year ago and has been lying to both him and Mona about it.
• Wham Line:
  • In episode 5, Ruben reveals to Ava that Niall owns his £30,000. Niall asks why Ruben would do that, and adds if it's because Ava is pregnant. Ruben seems surprised, to which Niall responds by revealing what Mona told him in confidence: that she and Ruben are trying to get pregnant. Finding out that Mona told Niall drives Ruben into an apoplectic rage.
  Niall': It's just that I know you've been trying really hard.
  • In episode 6, Ruben and Niall have a genuine and cathartic conversation after Ruben confides in Niall that he was molested by his father and the shame and guilt he lives with over it. Ruben encourages and goads Niall into admitting his own failings to level the score. Though the audience already knows what Niall reveals and he says it casually, the wham comes from Ruben's reaction and realizing that this is the confession that ultimately motivated Ruben to kill Niall.
  Niall: Yeah, I fucked Mona when you were away. Baird's my child.
• Wham Shot:
  • In episode 2, the shot of Niall's partner turning around at the altar as Ruben brutally beats Alby in the student accommodation to reveal that decades later, Niall is marrying Alby.
  • In episode 3, the shot of Niall at the altar looking for Ruben. They share a Meaningful Look, Ruben nods, and Niall says "I do."
  • Episode 4 ends with a Flash Forward to the ending of the wedding confrontation, where a gurney is wheeled out of the barn, and it's revealed to contain Ruben's dead body. As we don't technically return to this point - the series proper ends with a Bolivian Army Ending - we're left to surmise that Ruben bled out from the stab wound Niall gave him.
• Why Are You Not My Son?: Lori makes no secret of preferring Ruben - the son of her best friend and long-term girlfriend, Maura - to her own son, Niall. She constantly defends and praises Ruben, even when that involves pressuring her own son to lie in court to help Ruben and minimizing Niall having a nervous breakdown due to fears that Ruben would murder him when he refused to go through with it. Interestingly Niall suggests Maura had this in reverse for him - while also far too willing to defend Ruben he suspects the reasons she was always so hard on him was because she saw him as a second chance. The sons themselves, ironically enough, both share that they hated the other mother in prison together - Ruben having contempt for Lori and Niall for Maura.
• Wedding Smashers: The volatile and violent Ruben crashes Niall's wedding.
• Worst Wedding Ever: The present tense of the series is set over the time of Niall's wedding and features Ruben gatecrashing it and then brutally attacking him.